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It is difficult to define what you say is against your heart. For example, someone asks you what is your view of their new clothes when it looks a little terrible to you. If you answer it is bad, they may be not happy all day. If you say it doesn’t suit you, they think you may laugh at their **ure. In this case, do you want to tell them the fact. For me, maybe I will say the materials is very good, or the style is good, don’t talk about how they look. We are taught to be honest and candid, however it doesn’t mean we are required to say everything directly without considering other’s feeling. Sometimes people like to hear something good even they know it is not true. This thing happens all the time in our life. For me, I won't lie to others but I can choose to keep the secret or the fact to me no mater in life or in business. When I am in a bind of talking, there are some rules for me. First, protect myself on the premise of no hurting others. Second, sugar the pill when tell something negative. Third, talk about neither the fact, nor falsehood, when it comes to the sensitive topic. |